Don’t Stop Believing

Don’t Stop Believing

 

 

Last night we were blessed with the news that our daughter and her husband had just had their beautiful baby boy – Oliver James

It got us to thinking about our past and your future – in fact we are sending out an email to our subscribers right now …..

As we were writing this we thought about music that inspired us and then we remembered the lyrics of “Don’t Stop Believing” and went and tracked down the video with the lyrics so you can listen for yourself [it’s had 27,401,059 views]

 

Here’s what we said in our email

We are so grateful for
everything we have in our
life right now and look back
in gratitude because it hasn’t
always been like that – we’ve
had struggles just like everyone
else.
Times that we don’t really
want to think about right
now because it’s no good
dwelling on the past.
It got us thinking about YOUR
Future …..
Are you going to settle for
where you are now… 

Or are you going to believe
you can go places you never
dreamed possible?

You may be going rough times –
financial issues, problems at
your job, stress at home and
strained relationships with your
family or spouse. 

And MONEY is probably something
you’re struggling with that’s

impacting you in MANY ways -both
seen and unseen. 

Believe us – you’re NOT alone

A FUTURE… and a HOPE.

No matter where you are right now–
no matter how hard it may be, how sad
you may feel, or scared or uncertain
over the days and months ahead.

Know this…

There’s an AMAZING FUTURE waiting
for you … but it requires something
of you.

Everything can and will turn
around just as soon as you decide
you’re not going to settle for anything
less than everything you deserve and
you start FOCUSING and FIXING
your attention on all those GOOD
THINGS
… forgetting everything else.
The best is yet to come!
It’s true… IF you believe it

Download the Lyrics here

To Your Empowered Success

Chris & Susan

PS our friend and author Amanda Ollier knew this when she believed in herself and went on to create The Self Help Bible We highly recommend this to all our friends and students who just don’t quite believe in themselves.
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Secrets from the Science of Persuasion by Robert Cialdini

Science of Persuasion – there are six clear rules of influence as described by Robert Cialdini and many books have been written on the subject but it all comes down to just SIX words – Reciprocity, Scarcity, Authority,Consistency, Liking and Consensus

 

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In this blog post we share with you the six rules from the Science of Persuasion according to Wikipedia and then an up to date version via video.

Wikipedia Science of Persuasion

As we said, our research took us to Wikipedia first – here’s what has been said on the six rules of influence…

  • Reciprocity – People tend to return a favor, thus the pervasiveness of free samples in marketing. In his conferences, he often uses the example of Ethiopia providing thousands of dollars in humanitarian aid to Mexico just after the 1985 earthquake, despite Ethiopia suffering from a crippling famine and civil war at the time. Ethiopia had been reciprocating for the diplomatic support Mexico provided when Italy invaded Ethiopia in 1935. The good cop/bad cop strategy is also based on this principle.
  • Commitment and Consistency – If people commit, orally or in writing, to an idea or goal, they are more likely to honour that commitment because of establishing that idea or goal as being congruent with their self image. Even if the original incentive or motivation is removed after they have already agreed, they will continue to honour the agreement. Cialdini notes Chinese brainwashing on American prisoners of war to rewrite their self image and gain automatic unenforced compliance.
  • Social Proof – People will do things that they see other people are doing. For example, in one experiment, one or more confederates would look up into the sky; bystanders would then look up into the sky to see what they were seeing. At one point this experiment aborted, as so many people were looking up that they stopped traffic.
  • Authority – People will tend to obey authority figures, even if they are asked to perform objectionable acts. Cialdini cites incidents such as the Milgram experiments in the early 1960s and the My Lai massacre.
  • Liking – People are easily persuaded by other people that they like. Cialdini cites the marketing of Tupperware in what might now be called viral marketing. People were more likely to buy if they liked the person selling it to them. Some of the many biases favoring more attractive people are discussed.
  • Scarcity – Perceived scarcity will generate demand. For example, saying offers are available for a “limited time only” encourages sales.

Source: Wikipedia

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